A: Hello! Tom. What are problems that spouses cannot get along with each other?
B: Hi! Jerry. As I know, first wife to second wife or mistress, discord, jealousy, low education, low living standard, revenge, looseness of law enforcement, injustice in judgments in judicial system, spread out of drugs and infiltration of foreign evil culture, intolerance of each other, tragic legacies of civil war, bitter experience in the past, etc. all of these can make spouses have a lot of problems.
A: Among of four kinds of madness: gambling, love, alcohol and power, which madness have you ever had?
B: I used to be crazy of love when I was 20.
A: What are you crazy of now?
B: I am crazy of alcohol, and most of Cambodian people are too.
A: Do you think drunkenness of alcohol takes one or two days, but drunkenness of love takes for life?
B: I don't know either.
A: Between wife and husband who makes argument first? Why?
B: Generally, in Khmer society and according to my survey, husbands or men make argument first because men or husbands themselves always consider that husbands or men are the big or important ones in families and always think that they have more rights than wives or women in families.
A: What are the consequences of women in the society?
B: Women, families, communities and nation waste much money in pubic expansion such as medicines, hospital care, policies, local authorities and legal system. Moreover, women who are injured or threatened not able to participate in development programs, fail to repay loans in credit programs and cannot further the education of their children. In addition, they have impact on health pregnancy, children and family planning.
A: How do victims feel after having violence?
B: Victims fell ashamed, hopeless, helpless and scared. as you are aware shame is the dominant emotion among victims. Victims live with the real fear that their husbands will kill them. Victims show signs of mental disorders and memory loss and several attempted or committed suicide.
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